Ways to help with a broken heart

What to do about a broken heart. Well it cant be mended easily, at least not without time and tender loving care and support from people around you. But there are some methods that can take your mind of your sorrow for a while and for a brief moment enjoy life.

1)Eating- Well i cant say that i recommend this way of curing but it does work for some people but it does come with a side effect of getting fat though. So unless you are skinny beyond reasoning dont try this method.

2)Drowning yourself in music- This way is a way i've tried. Find some tunes that you like and it's opposite to how you are feeling and drown yourself in it. Listen to the tunes and even sing along LOUD if it helps. Or you can just get some soothing piano pieces and just lie down and empty your mind.

3)Aroma theraphy- This goes side by side with Music. Just get your fav sent and light your pot and put on some nice soothing music and turn on the air condition. And just relax and don' t think so much about your problems.

4) Hang out with your friends- This is one method that always work. Get your usual band of friends and just spend some time with them and pour out your heart if you feel like it. Go to the arcade, Movies, Ice skating, anything that involves your friends and FUN.

5)Cry- Just cry until you feel like stopping or when it doesn't hurt much anymore but be carefull that you don't damage your eyes.

6)Any activites- Just go out and play some sports of start up some recent or old hobbies. Anything that can take up most of your time so you won't have time to think about your problems.

Well thats as much as i can come up with. Some of the methods or should i say ALL of the methods i have tried and they work. But if you have some other methods that works for you. Feel free to tell me. Who knows? Maybe it will turn out to be an even better method.

Why is it so complicated

Ever wanted something so bad that you would do everything in your power to not risk losing it? Ever felt that that one thing was the cause of your smiles and laughter and if it was gone... happiness itself would be taken from you? Well you are not alone. What am i talking about? About a relationship of course be it boy to girl or girl to girl or boy to boy. At the end it's all same. Because when it comes to a relationship no matter between which gender? Everything comes from the heart.

U always think that u know what to do and how to do it when it comes to a relationship. But what is it that you really know? I thought that i knew how to talk to females and get closer to them. But it seems that the harder you try for something, the more effort you put into it. And at the end, the bigger the let down and disappointment. U place all your time and feelings into her but girls are hard to understand. You try and try and try but it seems that it is never enough. You can talk to her the whole day or spend all your time cheering her up and being with her but when you say that it's getting late and u can't talk anymore. The true colors come out, the selfishness and self centered thoughts emerge. The attitude of "leave lar" "don't want to talk to you d" "i find my other guys lar" "don't want to friend you d" or the constant hanging up on the phone.

Dont misunderstand. Im not talking about all females, im just talking about the few that i have gave my time to and got a load of crap in return. If you ever feel that a person that u have feelings for are like that then i strongly advice to have a good one to one talk. Do not wait till the last minute to try to work things out because it never works. At least not for me. Haih what a way to welcome myself back tomy blog.