Ways to help with a broken heart

What to do about a broken heart. Well it cant be mended easily, at least not without time and tender loving care and support from people around you. But there are some methods that can take your mind of your sorrow for a while and for a brief moment enjoy life.

1)Eating- Well i cant say that i recommend this way of curing but it does work for some people but it does come with a side effect of getting fat though. So unless you are skinny beyond reasoning dont try this method.

2)Drowning yourself in music- This way is a way i've tried. Find some tunes that you like and it's opposite to how you are feeling and drown yourself in it. Listen to the tunes and even sing along LOUD if it helps. Or you can just get some soothing piano pieces and just lie down and empty your mind.

3)Aroma theraphy- This goes side by side with Music. Just get your fav sent and light your pot and put on some nice soothing music and turn on the air condition. And just relax and don' t think so much about your problems.

4) Hang out with your friends- This is one method that always work. Get your usual band of friends and just spend some time with them and pour out your heart if you feel like it. Go to the arcade, Movies, Ice skating, anything that involves your friends and FUN.

5)Cry- Just cry until you feel like stopping or when it doesn't hurt much anymore but be carefull that you don't damage your eyes.

6)Any activites- Just go out and play some sports of start up some recent or old hobbies. Anything that can take up most of your time so you won't have time to think about your problems.

Well thats as much as i can come up with. Some of the methods or should i say ALL of the methods i have tried and they work. But if you have some other methods that works for you. Feel free to tell me. Who knows? Maybe it will turn out to be an even better method.

Why is it so complicated

Ever wanted something so bad that you would do everything in your power to not risk losing it? Ever felt that that one thing was the cause of your smiles and laughter and if it was gone... happiness itself would be taken from you? Well you are not alone. What am i talking about? About a relationship of course be it boy to girl or girl to girl or boy to boy. At the end it's all same. Because when it comes to a relationship no matter between which gender? Everything comes from the heart.

U always think that u know what to do and how to do it when it comes to a relationship. But what is it that you really know? I thought that i knew how to talk to females and get closer to them. But it seems that the harder you try for something, the more effort you put into it. And at the end, the bigger the let down and disappointment. U place all your time and feelings into her but girls are hard to understand. You try and try and try but it seems that it is never enough. You can talk to her the whole day or spend all your time cheering her up and being with her but when you say that it's getting late and u can't talk anymore. The true colors come out, the selfishness and self centered thoughts emerge. The attitude of "leave lar" "don't want to talk to you d" "i find my other guys lar" "don't want to friend you d" or the constant hanging up on the phone.

Dont misunderstand. Im not talking about all females, im just talking about the few that i have gave my time to and got a load of crap in return. If you ever feel that a person that u have feelings for are like that then i strongly advice to have a good one to one talk. Do not wait till the last minute to try to work things out because it never works. At least not for me. Haih what a way to welcome myself back tomy blog.

Damn sick wei!!

Sorry i had been out of commission of two weeks. God had a serious case of sick attack. First the food poisoning then the fever then the headache then the other stuff. !!! Rough week man!! ANd of all times to get sick i get sick when my test is just a few days away!!

What makes a person tick..

Part 2 now.. what makes a person tick. After some research and asking around. A lot of people says that LOVE makes a person tick but some others say that it's MONEY. Well either way i don give a damn what you say because im the one writing the post LOL!!

Hehe kidding, any feed back would be useful though. Well from my point of view, a person is defined as a person if he or she is able to express themselves without having to hide their emotions and feelings. For instance, have you ever gotten hurt and i mean really hurt but you don't wanna tell your friends because to them, you are a smiling happy person that never is always in a happy go lucky mood.. well if you ever felt that then rest assured that you are not alone, a lot of people tend to hide their true feelings and nature from the world. Of course you can always confide in a friend but there is only SO MUCH that you can tell. It's like you can only tell 10% of your problems from your friends and the other 90% is left for you to sulk in.

If you are able to show your true feelings without having to worry about what other people might say then you are living a happy life without having to worry about anyone finding out about you secrets because there are none. It's easier said than done, because come on, who would tell their best kept secrets to anybody! No one, that's why even though we know that there is a way to release us from our secrets we dare not try it because we are scared of the things people might say about us.

Hmm what else that makes us tick according to me. I may say that it would be our personality, let's face it. Where would we be if we were not who we are(understand?? i don't). If i was not outgoing or funny or dumb, then i wouldn't be me would i? Be true to yourself. That's my advice.. Do not change yourself for the sake of someone or something and lose control and forget who you really are. If you are funny and caring don't change all that just because your friends are not like that and you just want to fit in. "What makes you tick" is just another sentence for what makes you YOU.. i may be able to come up with tens of thousands of reasons that makes a person but at the end it's you that will determine how you tick. Ask yourself a few questions if you are unsure of yourself..

1) Am i happy being who i am now?
2) Was i always like this?
3) If no then who was i before this?
4) Do i still want to continue being like this?
5) How can i change for the better?

I am no psycologist but i have ask myself those questions before and im surprised by my answers. Well i am getting the feeling i always get when i write my essay and when i run out of ideas. If you enjoyed reading this load of whatever i wrote then write me a comment with your answers to those five questions. Thanks.

What is in a relationship...

Hii!! haha well here comes another topic on an action of expression that humanity does all the time... Yes it's a relationship..

Well define a relationship.. to put it easily, it's usually the scene you see at local shopping centers. A guy and a girl holding hands walking side by side smiling widely as if no one knows that they are together.. Exception cases of course are guy and guy, girl and girl, parents and children. Lol!!

But what is a relationship!? What? Is it saying "I love you" & "I miss you" or "You mean a lot to me" and etc and thats all there is to it? OF course not! But first timers tend to think that thats all to a relationship.. especially the guys. The girls may have real feelings for the guy but first timer guys tend to just go with the flow and "experiment" with the relationship but not actually indulging in it. But of course there are exceptions that a guy actually falls in love or actually puts his time and effort into the relationship..

What IS HE talking ABOUT?? you may ask..
Ask a person about a relationship and the first thing that pops to mind would be..
- holding hands
- kissing
- making out
- going out
- movies
- dark places
- "I love you" "Be mine" "miss you"
- spending money$$$
- PDA (Public Display of Affection)
- sexy body(guys)
- cutie that belongs to me(girls)

Well theres a lot more but this is a blog post not an english essay..
Sure Sure above all happens in a relationship but is it THAT important...
It's important in a sense that both enjoy the fun in doing "stuff"
but what happens when a serious matter happens between the couple or when they try to talk about future plans or things that are out of the "topic".. Here walks in our friends "doubt" & "uncertainty"

Many couples tend to argue even for the most simple things like who is suppose to put the phone down first or why didn't you call me last night... And sometimes this even leads to potential break ups.
Point is that a relationship is no joke. It takes commitment and time and patience to let it grow and blossom. Like a flower...

Here we see what's is REALLY in a relationship..

1)Mutual respect- are you really who you say you are. A Gf or Bf tend to act like somebody they are not to please the other. Are you doing that?? Respect in a relationship is that both the Gf and Bf must be able to value and accept who their partner really is. And would give them the space they need.

2)Trust- A really easy example would.. You are talking to this cute boy in a coffee shop and having a good time and your boyfriend walks by. Does he take it nicely because he knows you well enough and trusts that you would never cheat on him? It's natural to feel jealous sometimes but never let jealousy take control of how you think of a partner. A relationship without trust is like bread without butter.. Hehe

3)Honesty- the best policy. This works together with trust as a whole. How can your partner trust you is you yourself is not honest with him or her. For example, your boyfriend catches you at the movies with your friends when in fact YOU told HIM you were STUDYING..what would he think. He would have to think twice before ever trusting you again.

4) Support - It's the times when you are down that you will need a shoulder to lean on. OF course your best friends and parents are always there but your partner would be a better choice. You can rely on them to always be there even though they have to be somewhere else. And you can always tell them everything there is that hurts you.

5) Fairness- there is no such thing as a one sided relationship that works. It's always about the give and take. Do you take turns choosing where to eat or the types of movies to see. Or are you always the one keeping quiet because you are scared that it may be a stupid idea. As a couple, do you spend more times with your friends or your partner? Of course im not asking you to keep track but and make sure the ratio is always 1:1. Just keep it in a fair balance.

6) Living a different life - before you were in a relationship, you were going out for sports, hanging out with friends and spending time with your family. That doesn't need to change just because you are in a relationship. Live your life as it was and just add your partner into the picture. Of course you are suppose to make compromises but that does not mean that you have to like something you hate or hate something you like.

7) Good communication- Ever heard the saying " a girl never means what they say", No means yes and yes means no? The phrase "nothings wrong" can easily be badly interpreted depending on who is saying it. But don't ever guess what the other is saying. Instead, Just come out straight and ask what you do not understand so there are no miscommunication. Never keep a feeling bottled up because you're afraid it's not what your BF or GF wants to hear or because you worry about sounding silly.

Well i can't say that im an expert at "LOVE" but i do have experiences and by looking at other couples around me. This is what i could write. Hope you enjoyed it.

Next to come~~ How can i tell that my relationship is not working?~~ coming soon.. Hehe

What makes a person tick...

What is it that makes a person unique. Is it their looks? Their Personality? The amount of money they have? The way they dress? Or is it the people they hang out with?

Kind of makes you wonder does it? What makes YOU tick. I personally think that a person is made out of different things that makes them special.. but most importantly it's LOVE. A person can't survive on food or money alone. Well maybe they can but they happiness will be gone once their material wealth is gone.

Its funny.. Sometimes you feel that a person is right for you and shes the one. The one that will make u whole.(learn a lot from movies) but the next minute you get a sense of resentment. Well Maybe some people are just overly sensitive and what that is shown to them is never the real thing and sometimes it's just the right thing to follow you heart.

To be continued~~ End of Part 1.(sleepy d)

A day out

Whew well finally its time for the holidays. Not much of a holiday but still a holiday no more no less. Some friends came back from studying so we went to Times Square for a movie. Resident Evil.

Great Movie!! Thumbs Up~~ 5 stars!!!
But damn director is putting a lot of electric sparks in the movie to scare us of our feet.~U will know what im talking about when you watch the movir yourself~

Phew B4 the movie we went to low yat to get some com parts. We as in everyone but me. Well interesting place to be but unfortunately i had nothing in particular to shop. So i just waited... and waited... and waited... and waited!! almost late for the movie too~

So after the movie we went home. On the way back on the monorail i saw something very interesting.

*Raja Chu Ian* Actually its Raja Chulan

Well had a fun day but wish there were more ppl that came..

Dye Hair!

Alright!! Im gonna Dye my hair in approx five minutes and counting!! Hope it turns out good if not im gonna stare at the mirror with my damn mouth wide open.... WIsh me luck guys!!

Feelings lo.

Well finally its towards the end of the year and i see my life passing again. Well what have i done this year. Guess not much. Got hurt.. hurted others.. well life's not perfect. Well so am i... but i guess its time like this that really gets me going to think that maybe i could have done something more with myself than i could have. I guess i disappointed some people. I gave promises that i couldn't keep. I gave my word to do stuff that i did not do. Sorry seems hardly the appropriate word at times like this. I wonder if things had been different if i went that day... i wonder. Well i wonder a lot of things. And this meaningless existence is one of it. If i was suppose to do something big. The order is not here yet. Here i want to apologize to the feelings i have hurt, to the ones whose feelings i have ill heartedly trampled. I have been a jerk to you guys and im sorry. Even though its hard to believe. I really am.

~ Haih feels kind of relaxing to get it all out but do i really have the guts to post this out~
~ I DO!!~

Happy Birthday Wei Ning!!!

Finally finished The last trial exam paper!!! Then straight away went to celebrate wei ning's birthday. Woo was fun lo. First we had our lunch at sushi king. Damn expensive lo the food there!!



yes i know that your phone is cool lar



Kit Yee the terminator!!!



Woo shes enjoying her long awaited food!! Go Kit YEE!! Eat it ALL!!



Jun Ji Acting cute as im about the give him acupunture on his ears




After the Ears we move to the nose!! Muahahha!!!



Finally to finish the treatment we have to stick two sticks into his brain, Note the facial expression. It proves that it is working!!

Anyway Happy Birthday Wei Ning. Very Fun Birthday!!!

Cake Making Again!!

Well another day in my dishy world.
Had a com science test today. Whatever you do...always bring a jacket. I swear that i was constantly rubbing my hands hoping to create fire!!

Well after that went over to my house to bake a bake with the dynamic duo lo.
HaihZ...... Shu yi ar.... use a proper knife to cut chocolate lo... she's like using a butter knife and cutting the block of chocolate and when all else fails. You a rolling pin as a hammer and hammer all the way down until you cut it..

Well things were going smoothly or so it seemed... Mixed the cheese...Added the whipped cream and added the chocolates. Seemed like i could go through this without any trouble at all

WRONG!!!
Things HAD to go wrong. For heavens sake lar... can't you two get along even for two hours!! Ish so im not really sure how it started but as i turn my back. I see two chocolate covered fellas. One had it on his face and the other on her hands. Next water splashing in my kitchen. MY KITCHEN!!! MY HOLY GROUNDS!!! Ish!!

She's like LIP BOON and he's like TAN SHU YI!! Then both carrying breakable cups filling them up with water and started acting like a couple of four years old.. Haih finally got them to stop i hoped. And they went home!!!! YAY!!!!

Warning!!!

Warning to all that reads..... NEVER and i repeat NEVER let these TWO come into the sanctuary that is your home... One: They will ransack your house!! Two: Percentage of broken things will rise to 89.9%

On the left we have Mr Lim Lip Boon a.k.a Baboon or LIP BOON as quoted by Shu Yi.
One the left we have Tan Shu Yi a.k.a "Lion" or TAN SHU YI as quoted by Lip Boon
The Quoted Parts can be usually heard after you hear the sound of a Slap across one of the two faces you see. Or After a very hard hit to the groin is performed by Miss Tan Shu Yi.

Well On a seemingly fine day, i set out on a quest... to make a chocolate cheese cake. Seems easy right?? Wrong! this task was not an easy one. It requires skills that has been sharpen throughout the years. Determination forge by accomplishing the impossible and most important of all!! .... A pair of handy dandy ear plugs!! yes Ear plugs!!

Why you may ask? Because i was going to bake that cake alongside the Dynamis Duo!!! Tan Shu Yi and Lim Lip Boon!!

Ok from here on. Lip Boon will be known as Person L and Shu Yi will be known as Person S.
Well i set out on my journey by eating two panadols and getting on Person S's car. We drove to my little cottage in the middle of the kampung of Subang..

Well First we take the Oreo's that were for the cake base and was suppose to crush them. Seeing as it was a seemingly easy job to do.. I gave it to Person S. Wrongo!! Using her crocoach beating skill. she Whacked the cookies with all her lion strenght. Baam!! Bamm! Bamm~ Crush those cookies~ when i checked,... ISh! flatten as they may seem. Still in one piece. Not pieces!

Then i used tactic diversion number 2(MTV VMA awards) to lure the dynamic duo out of the kitchen and began to move in lightspeed to finish the cake.

Phew!! tiring we were so we proceeded to the neighbourhood bazaar to purchase nutrients from the local merchants. As we walk down the road, we were attracted to the delicious aroma of the local cuisine. Mmmmm tasty looking food were all around us.

We walked and i swear to you... Person S was going i want this.. Wah that one looks nice. Buy some. Ivan Pay. Person L pay.. then Ivan Pay!! I wan sate i want rice i want roti john i want i want i want i want i want i want.


The amount of food bought by us. damn alot of food




Don't Let their Smile's fool you.. Seconds before the camera was out. An intense fight was taking place.


Cornsketeers!! All eat one! and one for all!!



Can you believe i ate so little!

well naturally we couldn't finish the food all thanks to a one special person who spent and spent and spent..

Well to lose the extra weight that we WEREN'T suppose to gain ( all were dieting)
we took a little walk to the park. And as you can see Age is just a number. The most important is whether your brain grows or not. In Person L's case. well u can see for yourself



Somehow. This picture seems funny. And it seems wrong!!!! Well you imagine it yourself



Surfing is a good way to exercise but destroying public property is not. bear that in mind.

Well eventually they left(YAY!!!) hehe thanks guys(person S and L) for starring in my blog.

Happy Moon Cake festival!!

Hi Guys. Happy Moon Cake Festival. Another year has pass now. Ish Time sure flies when you're burning your friend's clothes and chasing them around with lit candles. Haihzzz the good ol days...


Wooo Lantern's at my Temple


Yay my Pinky Lantern. Damn Cute lo. But haihzzz sadly :,( it got burned down......



Yay My Three Pink Lantern's Love Love Love them alll!!! But two got taken away. WAhhhhh!!!...


Our Funny Big 56cm Lantern "Mr SUnny" Damn Failure lo. Such a big lantern and only one small candle to light it.



Beautiful! Absolutely Beautiful! Reminds me of Japan... dono why though...



Finally! Me!! ~~wo Zhao ni Ar~~ Come to me~~~~

Anyhooo Happy Moon cake festival to all my amigos!

NIVEA Photo Shoot Day!!!!

WooHOO!! NivEa and 8tv came to our campus today and They set up a Booth and were like asking people to join the Nivea Confidence Photo Shoot and the Ultimate Prom King and Queen Contest. Well a few of us joined the photo shoot lo. hheehehe Wanna see the pics??



Lip Boon Actioning with his New "NAVIGATOR" Phone lo. Whats new....


Wah Peacock wor WAH!! Hehe Nice smile though


Wah Peacock Turn into Lion wei!! ROARRRR!!!!


Ummmm swt swt swt.... Wei Ning i think you have some bacteria on your shoulder..


Kit Yee can pose for the photoshoot too!! Yay!! GamBate!!


Lets see now.. Lip Boon was posing then Shu Yi slaps him then Lip Boon slaps her back the Shu Yi kicks his balls. Lip Boon drops to the floor yelling TAN SHU YIIII!!!!!!! Then Shu Yi runs and gets cornered by Lip Boon. They Exchange punches and kicks then an intense fight of the hour breaks out. Wah Shadow Kick then Drunken Fist then the Mantis Style then got Sissy style and LALA style and SI HUM style also fly out.....Umm sorry out of topic d.( don wanna read naruto again while writing). Anyway me and wei ning were holding our phones and snapping all the way while laughing lo.

Cousins Wonderfull Wedding

Phew finally it was sunday. My cousin brother's wedding day. Happy happy day lo



Damn beautiful car. The twin bears on it makes you wanna go AWWW!!! WLV 8840 go buy TOTO!!



One Big Happy Family That includes the TV.



Well time flies when you are taking videos and getting angpau's. It was finally night time and we drove all the way to god knows where at somewhere i never heard of and had the wedding dinner.



Mmmm Beautiful beautiful. Love the way it is stacked




Slurp!! Champagne for the bride and groom. >.< i didn't get any.....




Flowers for the bride i think but she never did touch it though...




Lovely Cake. Hint* Invert your head and you will see the cake my friends...




Cake AGAIN!!



And again......



My cousin and his girlfriend. Smile all you want bro. Soon its your wedding dinner NYah Nyah Nyah!!


Oi she doesn't want it lar. At least not in front of my cam!!



Mmm First dish... Pineapple ROCKS!!!.. and the other things beside it taste good too...



The piece of meat i had to fight with my other fellow tablerians to get. MUahahaha MINE MINE!!!



I can Dare say that this COULD be my last bowl of sharkfin soup(poor little sharkies..)



Again another dish that is worth fighting for and trust me. It was a fierce battle..



Just look at my portion of the meat... haih.......



See what i mean by FIERCE. Not even the bones were spared.....amitabha..



MMMMMmmmmmm suckling pig!! need i say more.



Time for the toast YAM SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE . ..... breathe breathe EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENG!!!!!


Even the little boy was shouting with us and he CAN shout lo. Was clapping and YAMMM YAMMM HEE HEE YAM YAM YAM HEE HEE S..E...N....YAM YAM!!!

Ahhhh my favourite mine. Champagne ala grape ala glass ala sodapop ala not me drinking. MY FAV!!



Looks appetizing. Half squashed.....something lo. Can't make out what it is though



Yam lotus rice. Not enough lotus not enough yam but DAMN lot of rice!



YES YES YES!! If you know me well enough then you would know that im a sucker for prawns especially butter prawns!!! Absolutely positively without a doubt my F.A.V food all around.!!



See what i mean by F.A.V food!!! TWO pictures WEi!!



Dessert. Looks likes apoorly laid pool table minus the green stuff.



AnD finally red bean paste liquid that looks and taste yummy!!!

LAla Great Wedding!!!!